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Denouncing Charlie Sheen

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

On Christmas Day, Charlie Sheen was arrested in Aspen, Colorado for spousal abuse that may have involved a weapon.

If true, his conduct is horrible, disgusting and inexcusable in itself, and is also incredibly dangerous. As a celebrity, Sheen serves as a role model and thus runs the risk of teaching other boys and men that its okay to beat their partners.

But, in the airport today, I heard something that challenged this in a small but powerful way. Two burly menmystrength_poster_11_let were sitting behind me reading the paper and one said “Charlie Sheen is a wife-beater – fucking asshole.” And the other responded, “Yeh, I would never hit any woman I’m with.”

We need more men denouncing domestic assaulters and professing themselves committed to ending sexual and domestic violence. Props to all men who know that strength is not for hurting.

Please don’t kill Health Care Reform!

Monday, December 21st, 2009

If progressive Democrats kill health care reform because its not good enough, what will happen? Nothing. Nothing new, that is. People like me will continue to be denied coverage because of a pre-existing condition. Millions of Americans will continue to remain uninsured because they cannot afford the premiums. No one but lobbyists and corporate-owned politicians will benefit from maintaining the status quo and insurance companies will maintain their stranglehold on the American public and our economy.

If progressive Democrats suck it up and pass the best bill possible given the circumstances, what will happen? The insurance companies will still make billions of dollars and continue to obstruct the development of a truly equitable and effective health care system. But people who have previously been denied coverage will now be able to get health insurance. And some people who cannot currently afford health insurance premiums will receive subsidies to help them afford it.

As Paul Krugman says:

But let’s all take a deep breath, and consider just how much good this bill would do, if passed — and how much better it would be than anything that seemed possible just a few years ago. With all its flaws, the Senate health bill would be the biggest expansion of the social safety net since Medicare, greatly improving the lives of millions. Getting this bill would be much, much better than watching health care reform fail.

“Greatly improving the lives of millions.” Some lives will be saved.

Lives will still be lost, many because this bill is imperfect. It excludes undocumented immigrants, attacks abortion rights and doesn’t really address the fundamental flaws in our health care system. As long as the financial might of the insurance lobby continues to exert such tremendous influence on our political process, our health insurance system will be woefully inadequate.

This reality is devastating, and we must work to change it as vigorously and efficiently as possible. But we can’t let ideology trump our commitment to preserving the dignity and worth of human life. And in this case, this means supporting health care reform that, while imperfect, is the greatest leap towards universal health care in this country in decades. Nate Silver points out:

…Fundamental reform like single-payer or Wyden-Bennett was never really on the table. The bill comes very close, indeed, to establishing what might be thought of as a right to access to health care: once it’s been determined that people with pre-existing conditions cannot be denied health care coverage, and that working class people ought to receive assistance so that they can afford health care coverage, it will be very hard to remove those benefits. It’s the sort of opportunity that comes around rarely — and one that liberals will greatly regret if they turn down.

The path towards fixing a system as broken as America’s health care system is not a short, straightforward march to victory and a happy ending. We have been operating for decades on a failed system that will take years to fix. This was just round one.

But it is a victory. A victory that can be used as momentum to further victories on issues like green jobs and comprehensive immigration reform. Afterall, health care is one battle in a Presidency and a movement that have only just begun.

Men must speak out against rape

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

Roman Polanski drugged and raped a 13-year-old girl, fled the country and has been living free as an acclaimed film director for over 30 years.

I don’t really know what to say about Roman Polanski. Well, okay yes I do. He’s a scum-sucking rapist who has managed to evade justice for 30 years. What I don’t know is how on earth so many people could be defending him after all of this.

There are some wonderful posts by people who can express their outrage and share their experiences with sexual assault much more eloquently than I…check some of them out on Tari Rocks! and Feministe.

But one thing I can speak about is the need for men to speak out against rape. As many of you know, I’m Transgender, meaning that, in my case, i was born female but for most of my life felt more like a man, and I am now transitioning to living as a man. One of the most difficult parts about my transition is the fact that we live in a horribly sexist culture and some men commit incredible crimes against women.

Doesn’t it make you sick to your stomach to know this man drugged and raped a child? That is not what being a man is about! This is precisely why men must speak out against rape. In addition to needing to unite with women against sexual assault, we also need to provide other boys and men with positive role models. And a big part of being a role model is speaking out against injustice.

Governments and celebrities protecting rapists because they are famous is clearly an injustice, which is why I’m grateful for role models like Jay Smooth and Dwight Furrow who call it out while so many others were silent or, even worse, defended him.

For Jay Smooth’s vlog post calling out Polanski’s celebrity defenders, check out Ill Doctrine

For Dwight Furrow’s post tearing apart media and governmental defense of Polanski, visit Philosophy on the Mesa

To take action against sexual assault, visit RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network).